What are Human Givens?
We are all born
with innate knowledge programmed into us from our genes. Throughout
life we experience this knowledge as feelings of physical and emotional
need.
These feelings evolved over millions of years and, whatever our cultural
background, are our common biological inheritance. They are the driving
force that motivates us to become fully human and succeed in whatever
environment we find ourselves in. It is because they are incorporated
into our biology at conception that we call them 'human givens'.
Given physical needs: As animals we are born into a material
world where we need air to breathe, water, nutritious food and sufficient
sleep. These are the paramount physical needs. Without them, we quickly
die. In addition we also need the freedom to stimulate our senses and
exercise our muscles. We instinctively seek sufficient and secure shelter
where we can grow and reproduce ourselves and bring up our young. These
physical needs are intimately bound up with our emotional needs
the main focus of human givens psychology.
Given emotional needs: Emotions create distinctive psychobiological
states in us and drive us to take action. The emotional needs nature
has programmed us with are there to connect us to the external world,
particularly to other people, and survive in it. They seek their fulfillment
through the way we interact with the environment.
Consequently, when
these needs are not met in the world, nature ensures we suffer considerable
distress anxiety, anger, depression etc. and our expression
of distress, in whatever form it takes, impacts on those around us.
People whose emotional needs are met in a balanced way do not suffer
mental health problems. When psychotherapists and teachers pay attention
to this they are at their most effective.
In short, it is by meeting our physical and emotional needs that we
survive and develop as individuals and a species.
There is widespread agreement as to the nature of our emotional needs.
The main ones are listed below.
Emotional needs include:
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Security safe
territory and an environment which allows us to develop fully
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Attention (to give
and receive it) a form of nutrition
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Sense of autonomy
and control having volition to make responsible choices
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Being emotionally
connected to others
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Feeling part of a
wider community
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Friendship, intimacy
to know that at least one other person accepts us totally for who
we are, warts 'n' all
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Privacy opportunity
to reflect and consolidate experience
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Sense of status within
social groupings
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Sense of competence
and achievement
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Meaning and purpose
which come from being stretched in what we do and think.
Along with physical
and emotional needs nature gave us guidance systems to help us meet
them. We call these 'resources'.
The resources nature gave us
to help us meet our needs include:
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The ability to develop
complex long term memory, which enables us to add to our innate knowledge
and learn
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The ability to build
rapport, empathise and connect with others
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Imagination, which
enables us to focus our attention away from our emotions, use language
and problem solve more creatively and objectively
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Emotions and instincts
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A conscious, rational
mind that can check out our emotions, question, analyse and plan
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The ability to 'know' that is, understand the world unconsciously through metaphorical
pattern matching
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An observing self
that part of us that can step back, be more objective and be aware
of itself as a unique centre of awareness, apart from intellect, emotion
and conditioning
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A dreaming brain
that preserves the integrity of our genetic inheritance every night
by metaphorically defusing expectations held in the autonomic arousal
system because they were not acted out the previous day.
It is such needs and tools together
that make up the human givens, nature's genetic endowment to humanity.
Over enormous stretches of time,
they underwent continuous refinement as they drove our evolution on.
They are best thought of as inbuilt patterns biological templates
that continually interact with one another and (in undamaged people)
seek their natural fulfilment in the world in ways that allow us to
survive, live together as many-faceted individuals in a great variety
of different social groupings, and flourish.
It is the way those needs are
met, and the way we use the resources that nature has given us, that
determine the physical, mental and moral health of an individual.
As such, the human givens are
the benchmark position to which we must all refer in education,
mental and physical health and the way we organise and run our lives.
When we feel emotionally fulfilled and are operating effectively within
society, we are more likely to be mentally healthy and stable. But when
too many innate physical and emotional needs are not being met in the
environment, or when our resources are used incorrectly, unwittingly
or otherwise, we suffer considerable distress. And so do those around
us.
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